ALL MALES IN (submissives) get your over here!?

The best way to figure out how to be a Dom is to be a Sub. That is really the best way to know what the Sub is thinking and feeling. Also I suggest that you do a lot of research. There are some great books out there; such as S&M 101and The art of sensual female dominance. You can find both of these on Amazon.com. My husband and I are in to , but only as an added bonus to our life and we have both played both roles (thou he prefers I be the Dom). Either way, when done right it is a very rewarding experience for both involved. Just remember the Dom is not there to hurt the Sub. You are there to protect them!