Is this relationship wrong?

OK, let's see, you're living in a multi-million dollar mansion and dating a girl on welfare who promises to find work once your married, because then she'll have a built in baby sitter, and will probably have to move in with you in the multi million dollar mansion until she makes enough at her new job to afford to rent that 1 and 1/2 bedroom luxury efficiency apartment in the low rent district of whatever city you're in. You don't want honesty, because you ask if dating a perfect for you woman is the right thing to do, spike the answer. Why not get a job before you two are married, and why the rush? Have you finished school? Do that first. If she's pushing you to get married, there may be alterior motives. Ask her to back off a little, find work, let you finish school and get established. Trust me five years from now you will still be five years older whether you marry her now or not. Good Luck