My name is Shawn Huntley recently I officially broke up with my girlfriend of seven years. During the seven ye

years many things have happen. We had a beautiful baby girl named Shanda after having the baby I moved in with her from Charlotte, NC to Newberry,SC while living with her I held down two jobs until by her request I quit. She wanted to work and neither of us wanted to pay for daycare services. Soon I did miss being the breadwinner and hated the role of the " houseman. " Cleaning, cooking, taking care of the kids, and etc. Problems in our relationship brewed and we broke up and got back together a number of times. The time that my mother daughter got pregnant again we were broken up and she was dating someone new. I admit we had relations twice around the time she was pregnant she convinced me the baby was mine and not the other gentleman she was in a relationship with. November of 2006 we were over and I moved in with my older sister until I got back on my feet. My daughter mother called and told she was putting child support on me. During the phone conversation in front of two witnesses she stated the youngest girl wasn't my child. As you may know any man would be heart broken to hear anything like that. I lost my temper and took my anger and frustration out on some of her neighbors cars which led to my arrest. Child support was filed and I paid it for a couple of months until she dropped it. When she though there was a chance of us getting back together. Anyway while in Charlotte, NC I started two jobs. One loading and unloading items off of trucks for Family Dollars and a bouncer at downtown night club. Due to my children mother I could only see my children when she permitted but the children did come and stay with me at my sister house for weeks at a time. I feed, clothed and spoiled my children. My family which is my sister, mother, my aunt, and my own grandmother love and spoil the children to the end of this world. (You now see I said children she later changed her story and denied the whole statement.) After time and a lot of hard work we decided to give it one more chance and it lasted for about 6 months. I quit my job I held in Newberry and moved back in with my sister. I been living with sister for about a month now and once again my child mother is filing child support and she has claimed that the children hasn't seen me in a year in a half. The kids were just with me the week of June 14 - June 19. My question is how can I beat this case? I'm not a deadbeat father I love both of the children dearly. Is there anyway I can beat this case for child support and maybe receive custody of my kids? We were never married and my name isn't on my youngest daughter birth certificate if that any information you need.